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GOOD FOR ME! 28 days of Self Love with Phoebe. In Cognitive Behavioural Therapy “Good For Me!” is a statement that is encouraged to be spoken to ourselves throughout our days, when we do something that makes us proud. A “Good For Me!” can be rewarded to ourself for any size of accomplishment: When taking out the garbage “Good For Me!”, listening a little closer to a friend “Good For Me!”, receiving an award for a major accomplishment “Good For Me!” I have often caught my mom saying “I rock!” to tasks that to me seemed small (like a newly organized “junk drawer”) and proclaims, proudly, when getting a stain out of a sweater that she is “The Stain Queen!” The Choice OS teachings by Mikis Hasson ask “How Can I Love Myself?” - joking that most spiritual practices sound like a Nike advertisement as their response to this question is often “JUST DO IT!” - Mikis believes that the way to loving ourselves is simple but we are blind to it, due to the paradox of pride (it being a sin and all.) I quote, “Whenever I am faced with a choice, if I make the choice that would make me proud rather than comfortable and safe, I am well on the way to loving myself.” I see this like a glass “self love” thermometer: Each time I do something that makes me feel proud, my self love thermometer fills up with that shiny red pride juice! I personally have struggled with loving myself and easily find myself unmotivated, unhappy and just plain not able to see how beautiful my life is! I feel not only uninspired and flat, I feel ungrateful and find myself waiting for “something” to happen. The skies have been a lighter shade of grey since returning to Canada, which is why I am dedicating this fresh new month of February to engraining this way of being and filling myself with the love I deserve. For the next 28 days, I will slowly begin to crawl, walk and eventually leap myself from this wintery cave of hibernation. I will be stalking myself to feel pride in every corner, sharing 1 of my “Good For Me!” finds, on IG: @phoebe_van_der_wart If you are feeling inspired, please join along & share with your friends who need this. Big or small, with a hand on my heart or my hands to the sky! #GoodForMe -Phoebe 
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 From down here the floor creaks
I hope that you are not struggling. I know it’s been over a year I hope that you are not struggling. The shuffle of your feet, the clanking of your brush The music intensifies, pulls at the heart I wish I could watch, but I know you need peace I hope that you are not struggling. I wonder which colour covers your canvas or have you chosen black or white? What thoughts are going through your head Do you feel you’ve lost it? I hope that you are not struggling. The music quiets down and I remember that there is always struggle before you breakthrough From down here, the floor creaks I hope that you are not struggling. |
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