Is the problem that you are NOT HAPPY?

The solution is easy!
MAKE A NEW CHOICE!
CHOOSE HAPPINESS, no matter what is going on.
It’s an INTERNAL switch!

The result?
Well, HAPPINESS!

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I wanted to give you a little check in (as I review, this is more like a lengthy check in!) with how I am doing over here. 
I am doing AWESOME!!! 
I just finished working, refreshing bedrooms, for the next guests coming into 'Copper Beech House' here on Haida Gwaii. 
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Here I am, posed in the living room!

As you may have noticed, through my Instagram (@phoebedykstra) stories, I am spending, as my mother says “every waking minute” putting my focus and energy into building my dreams with My Mythic Life.
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I haven’t been able to figure out how I am going to make money through my brand yet (but I TRUST) so I am doing what I rock at, which is cleaning, organizing and bringing fresh energy into homes / rental spaces here on the island.
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Thank you to my family, I am set up with housing & luxuries, so the cash I make through cleaning can go to my few small bills and the rest, straight into #byedebt (less than $2.5k!)

I’m loving my journey!

I originally had asked a friend to design me a logo, as I have always been so lucky to have people show up and want to help me.

But the truth is, nobody can do Phoebe, like Phoebe.

I have since created my OWN LOGO and I am SO F*CKING PROUD OF MYSELF!!!
​Want to see?

​How did I know when I had got it right? My body told me!
I could FEEL, I began to bawl my eyes out!
I'll do a separate post, breaking down the symbolic meanings of everything in the design.

I am going to be releasing ‘MY MYTHIC LIFE’ merchandise ASAP for us to wear PROUDLY on our journey towards our most MYTHIC LIVES! I know many of you are itching to support me and this would be an appropriate way to do so! I'm planning to go through Printful.com so each item is made to order and shipped to you from their headquarters. This is helpful for you and me as shipping from my house on the island to yours, would cost more than the item itself! So, Printful is the probable choice.

I am on a roll!

I am having so much fun, playing around on graphic-design tool website / app, 'CANVA' where I’ve not only made my logo but have made banners for all my social media platforms!
I am excited to have found a place to explore my creativity!
I have dipped my toes into 'Affinity Designer', and will be getting 'Affinity Photo' to edit photos very soon!

That’s right, Phoebe is stepping her game up!

Thank you to a new, rock solid figure in my life (who’s also hella handsome, heyyy!) I have been receiving guidance on film related things and have been hooked up with a pro camera and a tripod!
You may have seen me previously trying to film using a ladder on the beach!?
He’s hooked me up with a fat selfie stick, and a proper mic too!
You may have heard the wind making an uninvited feature in How To Live A Mythic Life video?!

​Everything is exactly, deliciously as it should be, because now I have a better, "started from the bottom, now I'm here" story!

Yep, I am stepping my editing game up!
I’ve outgrown iMovie and am now officially expanding my brain and focus abilities with Final Cut Pro!!
I am slaying the fuck out of the dragon that’s breathed his firey breath “Phoebe, you can’t do anything yourself” in my ears for most of my life.

I have immense gratitude for my friend, for taking the role of “silent teacher” when I break down asking him for help.
He knows I can do it myself.
It’s true, I just need to BELIEVE and KEEP LOOKING! ​

​I also secretly just like asking him for help. *eye roll*

In other news...

​​I’m heading to Vancouver in a couple days to visit my big sister for her birthday!
I live on a remote island, so going to a city is especially exciting for me!
I’m going to meet up with my MYTHIC sista, Tanis, who I did my transformation journey in Peru with, too!

All is great here, I plan to focus in and dominate the fuck out of IGTV, so, as much as you can view, ‘like” and interact with my videos, the quicker this can happen!
I want to reach the world with my personality and messages!

​I see myself on the red carpets!
On the cover of the magazines.
I see the biggest names, approaching me with respect as Phoebe Dykstra from 'My Mythic Life.'
I see myself helping to guide people of power, into their true MYTHIC LIFE!

When I was laying in my tent on the beach the other morning, half awake, half asleep, I got a vision of my own perfume!
I could only see part of the bottle, the bottom half. The bottle was white, it said “Phoebe Dykstra” in gold.
I tried to see more.
I wonder what scents I will choose!
I have some fun ideas.

It’s just the beginning!​

I don’t know who is reading this right now, but I know that I love you so much, thank you for choosing to join my journey!
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WE GOT THIS!!!

​If you are feeling super f*cked, and are seriously ready to do whatever it takes to join me on the path towards living your most MYTHIC LIFE, reach out and I can direct you to getting the help that has worked for me. It’s not a magic pill, but it works, if you work it. 
I am living proof.
 
Sending a super big hug, 
Love, Phoebe Dykstra

Whether I am on a deep journey to find answers to questions I've been pondering for years, looking for a location to shoot a How To Live A Mythic Life video, or am trying to decide if I should reach to hold his hand, I need my compass!

Often times I make choices based off what feels "right" in the moment. The problem with what feels "right" in the moment, is that my psychological state is ever changing and my beliefs aren't always connected to physical reality. 

A much more reliable compass then, is my heart!

The answer is not what feels "right" it's what makes me FEEL. 
Feel the most connection, feel the most oneness, feel the most LOVE!

Trying to find your answers based on what feels "right" can lead you to WRONG conclusions!
How To Live A Mythic Life *BONUS*

*beat beat beat* Yep, my heart is in my chest, off I go to explore a new day!
Happy Saturday my friends!
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Love, Phoebe Dykstra 

Itching to clear yourself out of what is not serving you and begin to engrave the teachings I am working with? Head to my blog MyMythicLife.com: at the top of the homepage click “READY TO LIVE YOUR MYTHIC LIFE?”

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My Mythic Life theme song available on iTunes! “Who Do I Want To Be?” By: ME, Phoebe Dykstra!
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AWESOME OR CRAP?!

​​Phoebe Dykstra of My Mythic Life gives traction / pre-review to old pal Ed Sheeran and Justin Bieber’s NEW song "I Don’t Care"
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My MYTHIC song:
"Who Do I Want To Be?" available on iTunes, Spotify & Amazon!

Love, Phoebe Dykstra

How can I get to where I want to go, find the answers to my deepest questions or achieve my goals, if I don’t believe I can or if I just quit?

BELIEVE it’s possible and KEEP LOOKING!

Creating these How To Live A Mythic Life videos is a ride! I put myself into the energy of the lesson for the 5 days (I film on Tuesday, edit during the week and share on Saturday) – This week’s video is about believing in myself and not quitting. Not only was this exactly the lesson I needed to dive into, but during filming and editing I was being challenged (by wind, not having proper equipment, I wasn’t able to add photos on iMovie so had to use my computer which is slow AF, poor wifi) but I BELIEVE that the finish product will get posted and I will not quit, I will KEEP LOOKING.

Heck, I even have a *BONUS* video featuring the greatness of Thomas Edison, Elon Musk and me, Phoebe Dykstra!

Happiness is the feeling that EVERYTHING is exactly deliciously as it should be.

If in any situation, I cannot find reasons WHY everything is as it should be, I will KEEP LOOKING, fully trusting that they are there. Once I find the “WHY” – I flip it into being the best thing that has ever happened to me.
This is internal work, for my HAPPINESS!
Go ahead, give it a try.
WHAT IS NOT AS IT SHOULD BE?
Now, dig deep.
Let go of guilt and shame.
How can you make this thing you view as negative, the best thing that has happened to you?
 
I’m interested to hear your stories and please, share your feedback!
 
Love, Phoebe Dykstra
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Yesterday I got to step in for a cameo on Haida Gwaii High, a film project my boi Patrick Shannon (@evilpatrick) is leading with the local high-school students, here in Masset, on the island of Haida Gwaii. 

With Sita (@sitakiora) and Lumina (@lumina232) having my back, I play the leader of the "Crocs."

We are the misfits of the school. 

The irony to me here is that year's ago, I was deathly allergic to the rubber, no, plastic, no, "croslite" slip on. The chemicals didn't cause the allergy, I just thought they were super lame. 14 year old Phoebe was not impressed.

Fast forward 17 years and there I was, in Vancouver (in the winter time) on a mission for a pair of Crocs! I was on my way to Tierra Mitica (@tierramitica), in the high jungles of Peru for an advanced self development workshop and collective art party, where the #1 choice footwear is, my arch nemesis, the Croc. It was a miracle that I was able to find these knock offs!

Up to the check out we went, me and my new shoes!

I can't go into too much depth of my love for these super sweet slip ons as I must save my footwear gushing for when I speak on my relationship to my number 1 boot.

But I will say, I just LOVE that this role was offered to me, at this time of rewriting previous judgements. 

Everything is exactly, deliciously as it should be!

I am looking forward to how things will progress with my involvement with Haida Gwaii High, who knows, maybe one day I will get to be a part of the Blundstones crew!

Tata for now.
(Should that be my closing tagline?)

​Love, Phoebe Dykstra

I lost myself there for a minute.
For a minute I mean, 2, almost 3 weeks!

For everyone following my story, you know that I had been working at the local coffee shop to do the hard work myself, to get out of debt. Debts that I had created from beliefs that I would never lower myself to a 9-5 / beliefs that magically money would come to me. I had been lost, not able to make choices, so was surviving by using my credit card for everything I needed and wanted.

The coffee shop was my only way of making the money I needed to keep moving forward, it was my structure and it was my ground. I had grown from rejecting the idea of ever having a coffee shop job, to embracing it and was about to order myself a hoodie that says BARISTA. I was proud. I grew to enjoy small talk and connecting even on the surface level with people. As a newly ex vegan, I surprisingly loved steaming milk!

Without going into great detail, I’ll just say that I had, had enough.

I let go of my intention to work there for the rest of the year, but when I quit, it also felt like I quit on myself.

I started to doubt My Mythic Life and it’s direction.

Without my reference point, I began to spiral off track. I was sick with a bad cold so my head got foggy. I was feeling depressed and was trying to come up with a plan to get off this island, run away, classic. Negative emotions and beliefs were sticking to me and growing bigger and bigger. I wasn’t myself. I was getting hooked in by a distraction. It was trying to pull me off my path, it was an illusion but I was fixated on it.

Everything is as it should be.

During this time, I got my tax return! It was more than 2 weeks of pay at the coffee shop!

I put my every 2 week payment against my credit card!

Tourist season is starting to pick up here on Haida Gwaii so there are more and more house cleaning jobs coming up. I set my rate and off I went! I’m loving it! Word is starting to spread that I’m a spectacular cleaner (it’s true!) and opportunities are popping up like crazy. I get to make my own schedule, don’t have a boss and get to give people the gift of CLEAN while I listen to podcasts to learn or ceremony music to take me into my own deep cleaning!

I was back in work mode!

But still in the funk, wondering if I should give up on My Mythic Life dreams...

When I got a message from someone with a vital skill, wanting to help me (for free!) - I almost bailed on our call!

The same day I was gifted a horse riding saddle.

The Universe was screaming “GET BACK ON YOUR HORSE, PHOEBE!”

The greatest power is sticking to my commitments, no matter what!

I wiped the saddle down, placed it on top of my stool and accepted the incoming video call.

Trust.

I went from grey to a rainbow hummingbird in this 3 hour meeting.

My people are showing up.

He’s going to help me so I’m able to generate income through my blog!

I hopped out of bed the next day, bursting with inspiration, I did a 6 hour cleaning job and returned bottles to the depot for that extra bit of cash, I also find it extremely satisfying, makes me happy for some reason!

It’s tempting to accept these crazy offers from people wanting to send me money to get me out of debt, but this is part of my journey. I’m learning so much from this!

Guess what!

As a way to bring in some cash, and to offer something to the people who are here with me at the start of this mythic journey (well some of you have already been here 8 years!!!)

I’m going to be releasing a t-shirt!!!!

It’s going to be simple but it’s going to be important to get things moving here!

I know the support will be through the clouds!!

Today I found a friend who is going to bring my logo vision for My Mythic Life, to life, (for free!) - I’m sending him my ideas tonight, I can’t wait to see it!

As for my month of being money smart:
I am still buying the NO NAME food.
I take my own basket, shopping, no waste, NO NICKLE.
I get whatever is in the fridge when guests check out of spots I’m cleaning, score!
I bought a pair of jeans and a $5 bag of clothing from the THRIFT STORE.
I got my protein powder on a GIFT visa.
My friend TREATED us to sushi.
I used the BOTTLE DEPOT cash for gas.
I’m making coffee AT HOME.

I have saved enough money that I am able to put $500 against my card right now so I can go into May owing less than 3k.

GUESS WHAT!

My credit card is down to $2,995.05!!!!

I don’t plan to cut up my credit card like I see online from the #byedebt community.

I’ve engrained new spending habits, with new understanding for treating myself. I’ve gained a new grounded understanding about money.

Oh yeah baby, I am powerful!

I’ve now learned from my spontaneous trip (which turned into a 4 month long journey) to South East Asia.

I’m not going to jump on a plane tomorrow, just because I have a credit card and “can.”

Once I’m not owing, It’s going to be so cool to purchase something with money that is now rightfully mine to use!

I’m sure the hype will quickly wear off but dang, what a ride!

#ByeDebt

Thanks for reading and check back on Saturday for my new How To Live A Mythic Life video on believing it exists and perseverance - “Keep Looking!”

Love, Phoebe Dykstra

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