If happiness is our default mode,
Why are we not happy?
* Striving to be PARADOX-FREE since December 2017*
Ed Sheeran’s song and video has me sobbing, it’s so BEAUTIFUL.
Ed is a huge inspiration to keep it grounded and real.
I’m thrilled he’s in Hollywood, rippling his energy out.
My biggest dream has always been to be in a similar position, to ripple my energy out.
See you soon my friend.
After 8 years of staying silent, or giving a fluff response, when being asked the question:
"How Can I Love Myself?"
I now have an answer! (THANK THE HEAVENS!)
I have found a key and have been putting it to work!
I'm so happy to share this with you!
If you have been searching, join me, in my latest 'How To Live A Mythic Life' video.
I LOVE YOU!!!
We got this.
Love, Phoebe Dykstra
Despite having had a wonderful upbringing and always being provided for, I still managed to engulf myself in scarcity.
When I was younger, I would cripple at the thought of going to a restaurant with anyone. What if they wanted to share food with me? What if they ate some of my fries and there wasn’t enough for me!
Thankfully, I’ve been able to move beyond this, but I still carry parts of the old energy with me.
The never enough mentality, S-C-A-R-C-_I-T whY when I’ve got everything I need?
I want to feel the overflowing feeling of abundance, in all areas of my life!
So, on this episode of How To Live A Mythic Life, I set out on a mission to find ABUNDANCE.
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Love, Phoebe Dykstra
THIS IS A STORY OF BRAVERY.
I can’t give Justin Bieber all the credit for me being hired as a MuchMusic VJ. But when you are dressed in all black, backcombed hair and piercings, facing a table full of pop music TV professionals, it helps to have “Bieber Fever” tattooed on your leg.
I was hired and it was a dream to get to meet the badass Bieb himself.
2 months into being on TV, with zero previous experience in any area of the field, I was brought into the basement by one of my producers. He said he needed to talk to me about something and that I needed to stay quiet.
Justin Bieber was coming to MuchMusic and my producer wanted me to do the interview!
“It’s a 1 hour, LIVE to TV special, promoting Justin’s movie, Never Say Never.” You are the host who is truly a fan, I BELIEVE you can do it, Phoebe.
I remember this moment, exactly, we were sitting at a cafeteria style table, in the basement, next to a pop machine. I didn’t even know the basement existed. What was happening.
Immediately, I went into the paradox, I had two very strong conflicting beliefs inside me at the same time.
I was spinning. My producer had me sleep on it.
That night I went to visit a man who I was seeing. Crunched up in a ball, I told him about the opportunity. He talked to me about facing fears and how our treasure is on the other side. He talked to me about leaping and the net will appear. He talked to me about my greatness. He believed in me. A part of me believed in me too!
I dressed myself in my favourite color… and leaped!!!
Justin is seated beside me.
LET'S TAKE A PHOTO.
Our studio is ALIVE! Screaming fans inside, screaming fans lined up down the streets. Justin's security, top floor execs, literally every eyeball on the damn planet, on us.
Well, I had better say something to him!
It's loud, but I lean in...
“Justin, sorry my breath smells!” "WHAT!" "I think I ate something!" "Ohhhhh."
WHAT. WAS. THAT.
I grabbed my fears by the balls, said "look here bitches" and got into the zone!!!
"Everyone welcome, JUSTIN BIEBER!"
I just hosted a 1 hour, live to tv special with the biggest and my personal most favourite artist in the world!! BOOOOO YAHH!!
Are your dreams right in front of your face and all you need to do is be bold, brave and take that leap?
What fears are holding you back?
Like my partner believed in me, I believe in YOU!!
And, I believe in me now too!
Let's do this thang friends, let's live our most mythic lives!!!
Love, Phoebe Dykstra
Oh, and when people ask me what Justin was like in real life, I have only positive things to say about that sweet young man. I truly believe he has a heart of gold.
I knew while I was in Peru, that I was going to get a cat when I got home.
A cat, to have as company in my #mythiccocoon.
A cat to grow with.
A cat to start my #mythicfamily.
A cat to help ground me.
A cat to love.
I didn't want a full grown cat, I wanted a kitten and I was willing to wait until spring to get one!
All winter I turned down cat offers.
I wanted a kitten.
Spring rolls around, the SPCA emails me, sharing a photo of "Big Cat" and off I went to meet her!
How could I not...
Below, you will see Lilly. Lily was my OG friend! I grew up outside of a small town in the prairies of Manitoba, on a dairy farm. To me, it was a cat farm! I named and love all the cats, but Lily and I had the deepest connection. Although born from a black / white Domestic Short-Hair, who we assume had a rendezvous with one of the toms, Lily appeared to be part Siamese. Lily lived 19 human years of farm filled adventures, naps and kisses from me. 💜
Below, you will meet Minnie. Minnie came to me for palliative care. I wanted a cat friend and Minnie’s human was away often. I felt a connection to Minnie as she resembled my childhood friend, Lily. Minnie lived her last months with me and my partner at the time, where she was loved and got to enjoy being carried down to the ocean in my arms. 💜
Below, you will meet The Queen! After seeing her resemblance to my childhood cat Lily and recently loved friend Minnie, I let my intention of having a kitten go and went to meet this part siamese love. The Queen and have bonded immediately as if she was born with me, 5 years ago. She's calm, the ultimate snuggle friend, she's quiet when my focus is on work and is surprisingly playful with her cat toys! She even gives me back massages in the morning. Once she is here for another week and knows this is her home, she will be an indoor/outdoor cat. She's itching to get outside, walks on the leash for now.
I am so happy I made the CHOICE to adopt her. 💜
Welcome to My Mythic Life, The Queen.
I guess around the house, that makes me, Princess?
I want to feel powerful and in control of MY life!
So, before pointing my finger at someone else, I ask myself how “this” could be MY fault in some way? When I used to be an MTV host, I would get so frustrated that people didn’t understand me, they didn’t feel me, they didn’t see me.
As I am re-watching old videos of myself on YouTube today, I see exactly why people didn’t understand, feel or “see” me! It is because I wasn’t making myself understood in a way that other’s could comprehend, feel, or see!!!!!
* I struggled with communication skills and chose to take the role of a TV personality!
* I was overwhelmed, excited and caught up.
* I put MYSELF in disguise!
Now that I am aware…
* I am working to make myself understood, by learning about and practicing communication.
* I am consciously slowing down and am discovering new places to channel this energy.
* I have unmasked myself and am proud to show you who I am!
If I was to forever blame everyone else for not understanding me, I would forever feel like a victim, feel separate and feel misunderstood. No matter the depths of the situation, I am now able to look at how something could be possibly, juuuuuussst maybe my fault. So I can KEEP my power, so I am ABLE to make a change, even if only within myself.
Below is my latest How To Live A Mythic Life video, "WHO'S FAULT IS IT?"
Phoebe Dykstra of My Mythic Life presents “How To Live A Mythic Life” - A series of 1 minute videos, where she gives you a glimpse into the 18 pillars she is using to consciously reprogram herself, for her happiness.
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In Andean Shamanism,
🐍The serpent is ground level, root chakra.
💚The serpent is the physical.
🐍The serpent is cool and emotionless.
💚The serpent is logical and strategic.
🐍The serpent is calculated and makes lists.
Serpent has never been my forté.
I have always been entranced with the ethereal.
I’ve lived my life, hovering a foot or more off the Earth, most times floating in dream land.
I didn’t have interest for most physical tasks, so I would pass them off to someone else.
This becomes an issues when you are 25 and don’t believe you are capable to complete a “common sense” task.
I couldn’t makes plans, let alone commit to them.
I chose a life of float.
No house, no job, no money, no plan.
I chose to float higher with the use of psychedelics until I was convinced I was never a human.
I have spent the past year and a half returning to Earth, Hi fellow humans!
I love it.
I have a house (a home!).
I work (and I’m rocking it!).
I am almost out of debt.
I have a plaMyMythicLife.comn!
Where I used to pass off duties, I am now pinching my thumb *see mythic practice below!* to get myself into the physical, logical energy that I have had previously created, and take it on!
If I am too emotional, *pinch.*
I carry a lot of Jaguar and Hummingbird (I will go into their energies another day) so, you’ll see me pinching my serpent thumb often. 🐍
I have been programming specific energies into my physical body parts, as a way to quickly change my energetic state and perceptions. Here is how:
I am focused, logical, calculating reality: I RECOGNIZE THAT I EMBODY SERPENT ENERGY: *I pinch my left thumb.*
I am feeling emotional, flighty and can’t make a decision: I RECOGNIZE THAT I NEED TO EMBODY SERPENT ENERGY: *I pinch my left thumb*
*Note: You can chose any finger (or body part) but you MUST use the same finger (or part) every single time for this 1 energy. My left thumb is programmed ONLY for serpent.*
“I slither like a snake, close to the ground
I’m cool, I’m calm, you don’t hear a sound
I see my world, in black and white
I make a strategic move, then I’m out of sight *hissssss*”
Thank you for being with me on this journey! I'm heading over to put the final touches on our next How To Live A Mythic Life video. Today is a big one. Are we ready? Pillar #12 "Who's Fault Is It?" COMING LATER TODAY TO MYMYTHICLIFE.COM AND @PHOEBEDYKSTRA IGTV!
*Note: This shirt is not part of My Mythic Life clothing, this is a @BoundByBlood shirt that was created by my friend and his girlfriend. Jason sees that we are all part of the human family, he wishes to bring people together by sharing the message that we all bleed the same. I’m thrilled this shirt has found me at this time!*